Feminism tells us we are all James Bond. Sexually potent, always on the hunt and somewhat psychopathic. He must exist or how could Patriarchy exist?
In fact the 'bad' aspects of this self image are appealing to a man who has been hurt in love. James Bond is incapable of normal human feeling. He kills and he jokes as he kills. He is shot, beaten, poisoned and treats his own death in the same casual way that he kills others.
This strange image of man has a hypnotic hold of the imaginations of both men and women. If you meet him. Run.